The painting "Ophelia" by John Everett Millais depicts innocent death and overwhelming melancholia. (Credit: Pinterest) “Is it better to speak or to die?”   I first heard this question when reading the tragedy, Call Me By Your Name  by André Aciman. A novel that plays with the power of love, through the eyes of time, memory and reality.   Whether you know the question or not, everyone has unknowingly asked and answered the question at different stages of their lives.   As yo